I'm a City Girl That Living in the Pop Culture

Nothing is more discouraging than unappreciated sarcasm.

eugh!
what a crazy life!
Sometime I cursing my day! Sometime ? NO!! Almost Everyday! Always feel messed up.

What is the cause ?
there's a lot!
But I conclude it in two words "STUDY" and "WORK" ( dont count the word "and" ya! )
Why STUDY makes me messed up ? WHY WHY WHY ??? (melodrama action)
besides the teaching system in this country that not suitable with the aim of this country!To be A Super Power Country!(Like what the Presid*** always speak on his Goverment speech! And His promise on His Campaign! Hello!!It is sound like a bull ,Man! ) Yeahhh , How can this country become a Superpower Country with the system like that , when the teacher teach in front of the class with the very old style! They Speak about what they read from the book , without any improvitation! Aigooo! What a boring! And the teacher always think that he/she always the right one, student is nothing! WEIRD ya?
Thats why the study always makes me fed up. Although I choose Communication Science as my subject , it stil disgusting.Hey! I think I choose Communication on the BEST UNIVERSITY in this TOWN, I will study with a creative student , Smart student, and The Student that have sense of beloging,and can be a great team work!And I'm tottally wrong! Hey they said that I'm a sarcastic girl!Just because I always have the different way to resolve the problem, And they can't admit it!And they being offense ( What A childish people ya? Hey we are old enough and We must be able to work in a team with a preasure!And work in Hurry too)
Okey Its enough with my study and the disgust on it!

My Work!
Okey my second life!Hey work on a Mass Media is my aim of life! I always think that this place will be the place for me to explore my creativity.. But, what is the fact? Not like my dream!okey almost like my dream , with some exception.
What is the main cause ? The Team! yeah this is not a great team , even I'll try to say that A good team , it doesn't more than a falsehood !
Hey! is it a disgusting thing ?When you work with another announcer that didnt want to correcting what she fault, and act like a best, and the relation among the announcer is a kind of Competition! Hey we still in the same Radio!What we need is corporate each other to make this company build up more and more , not to showing what we able, what we proud!The kind of pride!! SUCKS!
How can you work with a childish old man? Arrogant and a grumbler! my life is getting ruin!
How can you work with the old people , when we need to corporate each other , they busy to escape, and wait for the lunch time , and the break time,and complaining about the fee.Do more and then you will get more!

Basicly , the cause of my crazy day is .. How the people in this country work as an individu and as a team , slowly , not organized , too relaxed , didn't have any responsible , childish , full of underestimated , can't admiting the critics ,pussy, stagnant without any innovation , and messy!

Hey!
I'm A City Girl That Living in the Pop Culture!Work Hard,Work in Hurry,Work in a good team, Stubborn (If I think I stand on the right Side) , Full of Responsible,Independent , Critical,and Full of Creativity and Innovation...

I think, I was trapped on the old style culture , that has been rooted in this Full Of Sh*tty Rules Country!!

Someone who thinks logically, provides a nice contrast to the real world.

When the SEX is the BETTER than

well, after my last post which compare the coffee and sex ...and I think i get a positive comment from all the coffee freak , and all the oppositions will kick my ass!! now , I want to get a kiss from all the oppositions!!! Com'on! READ READ and READ buddum!






I'll compare the SEX and CORRUPTION!!!
SEX is better than it..


The 1st , Sex will not Hurting anybody,except you rape some one , you hurt that people. but Corruption , not only 1 person you hurt, but also all of the people, your family is the most.

The 2nd , Sex wouldn't make you imprisoned . Well, if you forget to wear condoms and the your mate pregnant . I'm sure that your mother will force you to married with your mate.But If you doing some corruption.. be carefull! the prison, wait for you

The 3rd , if the sex become a legal activity for you, your family will support you! Corruption? There is no parents teach you to do it. except, your parents is the corruptor too .

The 4th , You can tell to your best friend about ur sex experience , and maybe to make your friend envy you can tell it to your enemy .But corruption.. if you tell it to your enemy , you make your self in the trouble.

The 5th ,There's a book about the art of sex, which famous with the name KAMASUTRA . But i never know there is a book about the art of corruption ...

The 6th . Sex just make you tired for a while , Happy tired, I think . But Corruption.. You will tired as long as you live ... And thats will not be a HAPPY TIRED...


Thats all my POV!

AGREE or DISAGREE???
You must be AGREE , fellas!!!

PS : thx for all my friend!! You make my wild sense comeback dear!!! Big kiss and hug for you fellas!!!! Don't forget our plan on my birthday party !! #party goers!!! love you all! SMOCH!

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EXTRA Pictures! ;-)
ENJOY!!!



SEE YA!

MAN'S langguage

To be happy with a man, i must understand him a lot and love him a little.

Now Let’s talk about you… I mean… MAN :)

Before I continue,… have you read my post about “WOMEN’s ENGLISH”…???

Well, let’s compare “the language” then…

Almost all of the man talk exactly what the word means…. If they said, “NO”, means “NO”... When they said, “YES”… they really mean “YES, of course… absolutely YES”

When they said…

I’m hungry…. means—> they are hungry.

I’m sleepy.…means—> they are sleepy.

I’m tired….means—> they are really tired!!!.

See ???… they always speak what they exactly want to speak.

But beware girls!!!… When a man chasing something from you,.. they also speak “A STRANGE LANGUAGE” :)

WANT SOME PROVE??… ok, I give you some… :)

When a man ask her girlfriend out… go for a dinner for example… and in a short time ask her a question… “honey, do you want to go to a movie ?”… Actually what is in his mind is,…

“I would eventually like to have sex w/you” :P

Ahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahak….

Now,… see the differences??? :) )

I found out that some of them (not all of them actually… :) ) were always referring ‘their language’ to sex. (I don’t say all of the guy out there speak this kinda-silly-language, but you all have to admit it that most of you think and speak this way, hahaha… sorry guys :) )

So, if they said this words… they might think something like… errr… just read them here… I wrote some for you :)

Can I take you out to dinner? means—> I would eventually like to have sex w/you

Can I call you sometime? means—> I would eventually like to have sex w/you

May I have this dance? means—> I would eventually like to have sex w/you

Or, if you are in a relationship with a man, and then oneday you’re fighting with them.. the end of the conversation will always turn to what we called “sex-after-fight”. So when he said…

What’s wrong?… means—> I guess sex tonight is out of the question.

I’m bored…. means—> Do you want to have sex?

Or… when they said those “three-magic-words-I-love-you” … what is in his mind actually always end up to… errrr… sex :lol:

Check this out:

I love you… probably means—> Let’s have sex now.

I love you, too… probably means–> Okay, I’ve said it.. we’d better have sex NOW!! :D

Nice dress! means—> Nice cleavage!

You look tense, let me give you a massage… means—> I want to fondle you.

Will you marry me?… means—> I want to make it ILLEGAL FOR YOU to have sex with other guys.

*wait, I need to laugh first, excuse me…*

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA… :lol:

Ok, now lets continue :)

Let’s talk… means—> I am trying to impress you by showing that I am a deep person so that you’d like to have SEX with me.

Ok, enough about sex… I’m afraid if I keep doing this… I mean.. keep writing about the relation between man’s language with sex, I’m afraid they gonna said that I’m speaking what is IN MY MIND… hahaha, noooo… I’m not.

For me… I’d preferred LOVE rather than just SEX… because when we- woman- where in love… we love to make LOVE not make SEX… it’s totally different.

So, let’s back to man’s language… when they said…

What’s wrong?… it probably means—> I don’t see why you are making such a big deal out of this.

What’s wrong? it probably means—> What meaningless self-inflicted psychological trauma are you going through now?

Sounds so silly, isn’t it? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA… :)

When you ask your man about your hair cut or your style, actually they don’t really care. But to avoid from hurting your feelings, sometimes they just say “YES” or agree to what ever hairstyle you are doing that time :)

Yes, I like the way you cut your hair…. probably means—> I liked it better before.

Yes, I like the way you cut your hair probably means—> HEYYYY!!!! you spent $50.0 for that… and it doesn’t look that much different!!!!! *rotf*

*while shopping* I like that one better…. means—> C’MONNNN… Pick any freaking dress and let’s go home!!!!!… :)

Sooooo….
Do you understand what your man’s language???


see ya

WOMAN'S Langguage

To be happy with a woman, a man must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.

People always said that comunicating with women, needs a very high skill to understand what they means…

And according to my experience (since I am a woman)… I laughed when I found out the reality that we – WOMAN – do speak on a strange languange… I mean… even if we speak English… it always has a different meaning with the words that came out from our mouth.

Sometimes we said “NO”… but what we mean is… “YES”

Or sometimes we said, “YES, OF COURSE”... but what we means is “NO, absolutely not”

Ahakhakhakahakahakhakahak…

that’s strange isn’t it???

There are still many words that expressing the opposite of the sentences….

Check this out :

Maybe means—> No

I’m sorry… means—> You’ll be sorry.

We need… means—> I want

It’s your decision… means—> The correct decision should be obvious by now.

Do what you want… means—> You’ll pay for this later!

We need to talk… means—> need to complain.

Sure… go ahead… means—> don’t want you to.

I’m not upset… means—> Of course I’m upset, you moron!

You’re certainly attentive tonight… means—> Is sex all you ever think about?

This kitchen is so inconvenient… means—> I want a new house.

I want new curtains… means—> and carpeting, and furniture, and wallpaper…

Hang the picture there… means—> NO, I mean hang it there!

I heard a noise… means—> I noticed you were almost asleep.

Do you love me?… means—> I’m going to ask for something expensive.

How much do you love me?… means—> I did something today you’re really not going to like.

I’ll be ready in a minute… means—> Kick off your shoes and find a good game on T.V.

Is my butt fat? … means—> Tell me I’m beautiful.

You have to learn to communicate… means—> Just agree with me.

Are you listening to me!?… means—> {Too late, you’re dead}

Was that the baby?… means—> Why don’t you get out of bed and walk him until he goes to sleep?

I’m not yelling!… means—> Yes I am yelling because I think this is important.

There are still hundreds more dear, but I think that’s enough for now… hahaha… :)

That’s so silly… But it’s true, isn’t it???

Do you have your own “LANGUAGE”???? Share it now… :)

SEX and the COFFEE!

Hi!
before you read this post, please show me ur ID card.
you mustn't under 18 years old , if u want to read this post!
hahahah
Well , I'm kidding!
Everyone can come and join to the Club!

Dear all!

Everybody knows coffee , and almost of the people in this world ,drink it .
And so do Sex. Everybody knows it , and almost the people do it to , OK a half of them will do it later!!

But for me there are a lot of reason that coffee is better than sex!

O.K fellas!
Let I tell you! Here we go!

1. Enjoying the coffee alone , wont make you look like a desperate person , but enjoying sex alone, will make you look like …… (I wont say that!!! Let me laugh first! Hahahahahah )
2. You don’t need to worried when you enjoying the coffee in front of old man or old woman like parents. But if you enjoy the sex in front of your them? I think there is something wrong with you …
3. You can enjoy the coffee when you talking with your sister or brother. But, Sex! Can you do it and all of your family watching you?
4. Paying for a cup of coffee is not prostitute
5. Drink a cup of coffee will make you awake , sex will make you sleep .
6. A cup of coffee wont be jealous if you drink another cup of coffee .
7. You wont be a topic when you addict by coffee, but It will be the other stories if you addict by sex.
8. The more coffee you get, the better you feel. The more sex you get, the more tired you feel.
9. You can get Free Sample for Coffee when it promotion .But I never find a Free Sample for Sex :D
10. Sex with the impotent partner will make you unhappy , but we still can enjoy the coffee although it was a decaff coffee …

See….?
Just as simple as that!!!

So..
which one you choose , SEX or the COFFEE ??

For Me!
COFFEE!!
but if It legal for Sex, why not!!!! #bitchysmile

More Attractive with Mini Skirts

Mini skirt is a fashion that more and more popular among women of all ages.There was a misconception , which said that only a women with a small size fit with this outfit, you won’t be elegant with the mini skirts and mini skirts is the clothes of the BI*CH...

That was a wrong concept , you know that we need to be ourselves with what we wear , we wont wear the outfit which look beautiful when the another people wear it , but we need to wear the outfit that makes ourselves confident and attractive .

Attractive is the combination between beautyful,sexy, and cute :)

I’ll give you tips what must you do before wearing your mini skirts, so that will make you more attractive :

-You must know your body ,
You have a small size, medium or maybe you have a big size . You are the only person in this world who know the best part of your body.

-Mini Skirt is not only have a denim colour
There is a lot of new colour of mini skirt . Try one by one and then mix and match your mini skirts with a shirt , t-shirt , or maybe tank-top :) . It depend on the moment :)

-Mini skirts will make you more attractive , if you explore your best part .
If you have a big thigh , its better if you wear the mini skirt about 2-3 inches above the knee . But if you have a long or sexy legs ( like me ) , you can wear the mini skirt about 4 inches above your knee .You must be proud with your legs.

-The last , ask the opinion from your closer pals ( if your mom is the conservative person ) . How you look when you wear mini skirts , good ,Best , or worse ? I guarantee if you understand the tips before you will look AMAZING and ATTRACTIVE!

Good Luck!!
° this post dedicated for all my mini skirts °

Queen of Babble in The Big City

This is the story about Lizzie Nichols ,
I think her life is so lucky . She has a very nice boyfriend , named Luke . Luke is one of France’s Prince , although , since 200 years ago , France didn’t recognize it . She moved to New York from Ann Harbor. Try to survive in the Big Apple. She live together with her boyfriend in Luke’s Apartment .

That’s so nice for me , Lived in the same apartment , sleep together with my lovely , That’s so cool,,, for me :)

Lizzie imagining that she will married with Luke ,

( hmm I think I’ll do like Lizzie if I found my Man , real man , who has tattoo,piercing , able to cook, rich , love rock n roll music , caring , understand me and absolutely LOVE ME! Hahaha )

Lizzie try to get a job in the New York , and also try to find an apartment . She want to live with her bestfriend Shari . For a while Shari stayed in Chaz’s Apartmen , who is Chaz ? Chaz is Shari’s boyfriend .
Depressed because She cant find a job , finally Lizzie work in the Law office , the owner of this office is Chaz’s Father . Lizzie work as a receptionist ( not her aim of life ). But She also work in the Repairing Vintage Gown Shop – work with Monsieur Henry – without salary

yeah I do the same thing when I work in Smart FM , two months without salary and I survived!

In the middle of story , there something wrong about Shari and Chaz Relationship. They would broke up.. Chaz become so depressed but Shari found her new soulmate , she become a lesbians

That’s sounds not good , I think that’s the effect when the girls being so independent, and I was worry to my self , if someday I’ll become a lesbian too. I cant imagine it.. ahhh NO! I never interest to any girl,never!!!

Lizzie was fired from the Law Office , and She break with Luke on the Christmas Day! DAMN! It started when she think that Luke will give her a ring and say that “will you marry me ? “ but in the fact , Luke didn’t do it, She felt so upset.and Luke being so confuse .

On the end of year , Lizzie attending Jill Higgins’s wedding party . She comes together with Chaz . When the new year coming , suddenly they kissed each other.Chaz want to be her boy friend , but Lizzie reject him.

On the moning of the new year, suddenly Luke comes to Lizzie’s new apartment and it makes she supprised! Luke kneeling in front of Lizzie and says “ Will u marry me? “

The end of this story so standart, hmm Not a great story I think but its O.K to refreshing my mind!
But I don’t think that there is a boy will do the same thing to me , HAHAHAHA . well , until now I never think about married!! UHH I’m still too young for it!

daydream

If all our life is but a dream
Fantastic posing greed
Then we should feed our jewelry to the sea
For diamonds do appear to be
Just like broken glass to me

And then she said she can't believe
Genius only comes along
In storms of fabled foreign tongues
Tripping eyes, and flooded lungs
Northern downpour sends its love

Hey moon, please forget to fall down
Hey moon, don't you go down

Sugarcane in the easy mornin'
Weathervanes my one and lonely

The ink is running toward the page
It's chasin' off the days
Look back at both feet
And that winding knee
I missed your skin when you were east
You clicked your heels and wished for me

Through playful lips made of yarn
That fragile Capricorn
Unraveled words like moths upon old scarves
I know the world's a broken bone
But melt your headaches, call it home

Hey moon, please forget to fall down
Hey moon, don't you go down

-panic at the disco , nothern downpour -

hey! I'm Back!

Yeahhh., Finally! Finally I can write on my blog ,

Over seven month I go out. And it was amazing I didn’t forget my password. :)
Now I’ll tell you about my story . The story started from seven month ago …
Here we go!

*In the middle of January.
“ Yeahhh SINGAPORE I’m Coming!!!! “ I get my holiday.. yeah my first experience go to foreign country . and I do it alone.. ALONE .. It means there is no Mother , who will ask you to wake up early in the morning , there is no Lil Brother , who will mocking you all day , there is no Lil Sister , who wear the same outfit with you , and there is no Father ,who will angry if you change the TV channel.. yeah I’m Alone and I love it… The Unforgoten Memory in SINGAPORE is when I trapped in IMMIGRATION OFFICE .. I forget to ask my cousin , where she lived!DAMN!! I don’t know her address.. hmmm but I’m Lucky! I have her phone number.. The officer call her and then I meet with my cousin … Bye bye SINGAPORE’s IMMIGRATION OFFICE !!!

OK! I start my Journey!!!

SINGAPORE 1st day ,, wake up in 12,00, start my breakfast , Breakfast?? Yeah breakfast , Bread and and Milk. After that , prepare my self and go to the SENTOSA ISLAND!! Universal studio , Big Merlion , and the others place … Have a lunch in KFC , and then go home.. yeahh tired already!!



In home sleeping, watching TV , and help my cousin to wash her clothes and mine too … :)
at 11.00 PM, we go to drink.In ORCHARD ROAD..



Drink is not a sin, right?? We drink and we play MONOPOLY DEAL.. My first experience to play it . Shasa (my cousin’s friend ) tell me how to play it. Thanks Shasa! You are a great Teacher for me! :*

Singapore 2nd day ,, wake up in 01.00 pm , there is a text from my mom :

“Morning!! have u wake up ?? Remember your sister bday and my parfume..OK”

I think I cant have a real holiday…

Yeahh today the destination is Esplanade and Mini Merlion..*again It’s like a vomiting cat!! Have a lunch at Thai Express .. I went to the other place too until night and go home upload my picture …



Singapore 3rd day ,, wake up in 01.00 pm , and I next destination is Orchard Road !! ALONE!! Without my cousin.. Yeahh She must go to her campus… Ok Its not a problem.. And it’s a SHOPPING DAY!!!! NO WOMEN NO SHOPPING!!hhahahaha SHOPPING ,all night long!!



Singapore 4th day ,, Destination for today is LITTLE INDIA ,, honestly I was Lost in there! Mustafa Centre , yahh I go to there!! And Today I must buy my mom’s parfume and a gift to my sister … Then Packing!! Yeah tomorrow I must back to Medan!!!

Singapore 5th day,, Destination for today is HARBOUR FRONT! Although I must have a fast lunch today . I’m late for my departure … Ok wait for 1 hour and then bye Singapore! See you next time!Transit in BATAM... Ok tomorrow I’ll arrived in Medan..

MEDAN I’m coming !! yeahh my mom always ask me about her parfume.. my lil sister ask me her gift, my father ask me his scoot , and my lil brother ask me about what I give to him.. and He know the answer is NOTHING!

- JANUARY END -

FEBRUARY , I busy with my study,, and busy with my recommendation letter from my campus … Campus Management team full of the BASTARD!! I wait for 1 month for letter.. 1 month for a paper!!! IMAGINE IT!

MARCH! I start my apprentice job! No salary for 2 months !! OK!! Start it!
Mid Exam! Hmmm Sounds Bad! But I can get a good mark! It Easy


APRIL! I’m on air!!! Yeah sounds good!And this month I have a new project . yeahh make an event! USU GREEN DAY 2011!! And you know I think 24 hours is not enough for me!!! APRIL is the last month that I can have a porkly Lunch! With kak.Agitha and bg. TISTA … :'( miss you both !!!

MAY!!!FINAL EXAM!!!!!! Can I get a good mark?? Yeahh I can!! I can!

And this Month , its time for my event USU GREEN DAY 2011 , I’m the MC with Franky!! Yeahhh for MC-ing you are my soulmate Frank! And this Month I lost one of my friend kak.TASYA!!! She Re-sign from the office.. Deep Inside my heart , I was Crying Loudly so Loud!! Onni, sarangheyo!!

JUNE..

Start the holiday! HOLIDAY ?? No I’m work!! Work all day!! Nonstop!! DAMN!!!!
JULY!!OK I get my salary for this month.. Sound good? Yeah maybe! I can buy a new GUCCI bag! And it ORIGINAL … with my own money lohh!!! GREAT!!!
But this July.. again again and again! I lost my friend ! SUCKS!!! U know what you feel if u lost ur friend??.. And July I do the stupid thing, yeahh very stupid. I’m crying!! For all the women . It was a decent thing.. but for me no! NO! I hate crying! I hate , every tears fall down from my eye.. my beautiful eye! yeahh DINA FIRED!!! :’(
And I never apologize my self coz I forgot where I take my Phone! Again!!!!! Even A donkey don’t want to fall in the same hole!! I did it more than 3 times!! OCHI YOU SUCKS!!!!


AUGUST!!

The Dark MONTH I have..ever..
RAMADHAN!! AHH everybody know it.. U know all the people didn’t eat , didn’t smoke , didn’t angry and must keep their LUST! Ohh I didn’t celebrate Ramadhan! But I hate everytime people said He failing his fasting because of me.my mini skirt (-_-“) .It was your problem, baby not mine!Come on!!

This month I use my make up! I learn it from my mom..yeahh Look a bit marture hhehhehhe.And This Month I start to use my hig heels.. But now I miss my CONVERSE!! Ahhh

And this month, I found my enemy in this office. The 30 years old Single Man , and you know why he still single. He act like a boy and Think like a boy!!BOYISH!!!! and He is so annoying. Always tell me about SOP!! Come On I know it. I remember it! And when I want to use an earphone.. Come on I still wear it on my ear, not my ass! You act too much!And when I wanna used the recording room. All the people know how to ask somebody to out from the room.The Polite way..I think all the people know it except him!!!!

But I think this month not totally dark..

after 3 months I don’t have porkly lunch . Finally I get it..Thx for my friends , my new friends,Jakub..Thankyou, u pay the bill. ( I forget to say that before ). You have a great tattoo as great you had a lunch without a glass of water.. :)

And This Month I bought a new book, exactly a new novel , adult novel. I still read it. The Tittle is The prince of babble in the big city!

And I had a reunion party with my ex-senior high school friend.. Reunion party is not a good news for me. I meet with all the stupid boys. I wish they didn’t read this blog, But If they read it.. Ohh its OK! I don’t care!!Boys will be Boys!!

And I meet with the girl who want married ASAP! Come on!!! U 20 years old , still young to think about married! ENJOY YOUR LIFE!!!And the girl in the reunion party directing her smoke to my hair! Hey stupid girl!!! Go Away from me!!Go Away BI*CH!

And yesterday!
I’m Late!What the most embrassing moment than , You come late , don’t have a news. ( I’m an announcer and a journalist too) , don’t use lipstick , just have an orange juice for your breakfast , and u found ur PC hang! WHAT THE FUCK!!!

And Now TODAY!
I’m late! And then I cant concentrate today..I forgot to lunch, and I must make a resume about Prince! And know I wear the uncomfortable dress(I don’t like the cutting) , I was forget to use my lipstick and My hair so messy!
But Im happy today, Because I write for my blog again!!!

Yeahh..
I just want to say to you, everyone who read my blog.. I’m a lady now not a girl anymore!! :)
See you


- Mademoiselle Ochi -